Sunday, February 04, 2007

Sweet, little love.. Or is it more than that?

As we learn a lot of things at school here you go with what I learnt about love thanks to my lovely schoolmates:

''I love you! That means we have to go out regularly. You have to get me a present on Valentine's day (by the way, 10 days left). You don't have to send me any regards on Eid el Fetr, Eid el Ad7a or Eid el Aqbat but don't you dare to forget to wish me a Happy New Year. You have to call me a lot and send me sweet SMS until you have no credit. You have to hug me every day at school and give me a hello and goodbye kiss. And of course you have to spend most of your time at school with ME! As we're together don't forget to hold me in your arms, etc. infront of all the people. After all, we have to show them how much we love each other and how our love fills the world. You have to call me baby while I call you honey. In public, of course too. I trust you so much but I don't have to respect you. You can do whatever you want and I will accept everything for the sake of us being together. I love you!''

Ok, I guess these things are one of the reasons why I don't want to fall in love at all right now because I do not want to end up like that! Well, what I think of love? It's a bit different..

I love you! That means you are the missing part of my heart with whom I want to share the rest of my life. I respect you so much and the trust between us is unlimited. You prove that you love me by being concerned about my dignity and my pride because they are part of your dignity and your pride. I can rely on you for now and always and I know that you will always be there for me no matter what happened. I do not have to keep hugging you in public to prove that I love you. I do not have to get you presents or flowers (although it's still sweet to do it from time to time) to show you how much you mean to me. And I do not have to repeat the three words 24/7 so that you believe that I do. You are sure of that because it took me a long time until I said the three words (and I don't mean ''I am sorry!'' or ''I hate you!''). The day I said it I was sure that there will never be any doubts or regrets because I THOUGHT about it a lot and didn't just follow blindly some feelings that are not based on anything. I thought about if I could live with your shady sides. Well, I accept your shady sides and admire your values and moral principles. When I said that I love you it wasn't just some revelation but the commitment of my life because this step decides about the rest of my life. I decided to spend it with you!

Well, that was a bit better and included also my ideals (RESPECT, yes, I believe that you cannot trust someone without respecting him and you cannot marry someone if the relationship is not based on respect in the first place and then trust, understanding, etc.!)..

Anyway, should start with the Valentine cards for my friends. As there is no Friendino's Day I decided a year ago that Valentine's Day is also a day for friends making each other a little card or something. Just for fun, you know.
And so the singles do not get too lazy! ;D

4 comments:

The Sphinx said...

"Ok, I guess these things are one of the reasons why I don't want to fall in love at all right now because I do not want to end like that!"

Don't worry. You're not going to end up like that. Not after what you wrote about real love. Regardless though, with your personality, I wouldn't worry about it. =)

Nadia said...

Added the 'up' to the 'end'.
Thanks for the correction! And for the rest too! =)

Nada said...

hey,
I agree with you in some points, but on the other hand, you never know what's going on in their minds while they're in love. So maybe that's an excuse for them somehow, they're maybe somehow manipulated by each other and by the feeling they're having, so we can't judge them till they're out of the love-paranoia. But,all in all, nice description of love from your point of view.

Nadia said...

I think being in love does not mean that you give your brain a vacation. On the contrary, you don't only have to take care of yourself but another person too. So, it is more a responsibility than the relief that you have finally found someone with whom you share the same feelings. People don't seem to understand that!
Sweet, little entertainment..
Anyway, my point of view: Simply Nadiaismus ya Nada! ;D
Thanks for your comment!