Sunday, February 18, 2007

Expecting.. Accepting..

Relationships.. Are they based on the bright sides that you are expecting and appreciating or on the shady sides which you are accepting..
I'd say it's more about the shady sides which you have to deal with because it's often harder to accept the things you don't like than to admire the things you like.
For example when people start talking about each other behind each other's back they usually talk in a negative way.. They do not count the values but the weaknesses.
For that reason I believe it's more about accepting what drives you made than about expecting certain values and finding them in that person.
It takes some (a lot of) sacrifice and self-discipline to accept people's disliked sides.
But it does not take much to expect certain things and appreciate them when they are available. So, it's often not about what you like/get but about what you don't like/get.
Taken from ----> ''Iit's not about what you know but about what you don't know.'' (Einstein)

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