Just lock it

I always thought that honesty and openness are the values that keep relationships alive. That's why I prefered to tell people my true opinion instead of lying and acting. Now I'm starting to doubt that.. Sometimes it's simply superfluous to say what you think and feel.. The shady side of that is: You start keeping everything to yourself and some kind of balloon inside of you begins to be filled. The more you're quiet the more the balloon gets blown up. And now we get to the dangerous part: There's a so called ''explosion-point''. Psychologically this explosion can have two results:

1. You'll kick this person out of your life without giving any reasons because you're so fed up with the whole situation.
2. You get so mad that you let everything out and by then this person will be forced to face a wave of anger.

Now, I'm asking myself: What's better? There are two options:

• Either I go straightforward to this person and tell her what I really think of what she's doing
• Or I keep this silence till I explode.

So, let's see what will happen first...