SSH Club
It's just crazy.. There are so many things which can make you jealous.
For example when you see a whole a bunch of stupid people getting too much attention..
Or when there's this person about whom you care a lot while this person gives lots of his attention to another person (that doesn't give a damn about him). Also when there's this birthday party and you are not invited while people who dislike and make fun of the birthday kid are included.
And for some reason it is usually the stupid, superficial hypocrites who get all the attention.
I have to admit that this fact drove me mad for a while because I was always wondering what would happen if they got to know the truth and what's said behind their backs.
But then I asked myself: They get a lot of attention.. But by whom? Also stupid, superficial hypocrites. So, why should that bother me??
It's a circle which includes all these people of the same character: Lying to each other while smiling, saying bad things behind each other's back without having a guilty conscience, etc..
All members of the SSH (Stupid Superficial Hypocrites) Club.
4 comments:
Same here. But I think it's too passive to describe the others who give the intention as selfish and stupid. It's your role, at least as long as you think you're right, to think of a smart way to show these people their faults. Otherwise, you would pretty much like 'offending your moral believes' which order you to 'el amr bel m3ruf' (=to advise others). Nevertheless, the advice has to be properly delivered and wisely planned. If you're not sure if these conditions are nearly fulfiled, then you better do the advice through your heart, this won't be passive then.
Guess what? This time it's not my job to take any kind of action because it doesn't affect me in this case. Last time I spoke out my mind loudly because the whole occasion concerned me. Regarding this attitude and behaviour I don't have the right to interfere (as these people are not my friends).
And by the way, 'my moral believes' and 'el amr bel ma3ruf' doesn't mean that you walk around and tell people they are wrong just for the sake of it: 'Men 7osn iman el mar2 tarkoh ma laya3nih'.
Because this time it is not some action they wanted to take and I could stop it. That's a lack of certain values and I doubt that it is my duty to fix what even their families and friends failed to fix, especially when their behaviour doesn't have any effects on me personally.
All I do is kicking such people out of my life. That's all!
About being passive or not:
'Advice through your heart is regarded as 'ad3af el iman' so of course it's still considered as remaining passive (to a certain extent). But unlike the other situations: sometimes it would be simply 'ebtezal lel nasi7a' (wasted advice) if you said it loudly. So, you remain passive in order to keep the value and meaning of giving adivce.
Regarding this attitude and behaviour I don't have the right to interfere (as these people are not my friends).
Remember when you said: "Shame on you Christians and Moslems"?
I don't think 'Christians and Moslems' were your friends either, not all of them at least. So your interference was, as you just said, 'not your right'.
1) Some of them were my friends.
2) The occasion and the decisions which were going to be made were of my business because it is OUR Abi-Ball.
So, in this case it affected and that GIVES ME THE RIGHT to interfere.
Regarding the SSH, their behaviour doesn't have any effects on me (personally).. So, I don't care!
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